I met my husband in
my early 20s when I did not even think about getting married. It was
actually one of my female friends, who introduced John to me during a
New Year party.
After dating him for
almost one year, I decided to marry John and expressed my desire to
him. He immediately accepted my proposal and we got married in
January 1987, one year after I met him. We had our first child in
1990 and everything was fine between us until one of the friends
informed me that John rented an apartment for another woman where he
meets her frequently.
This had come as a
huge shock to me and I did not take too much time to ask John about
this. However, I was just praying that whatever I had heard about
John would be wrong, but his response quite surprised me. He calmly
said that she was just a “flatmate” and they met occasionally.
However, one thing I
must admit here that I started hiring male escorts soon after
learning about John’s adultery, because I was not committed
anymore. John knew that I have started hiring Manchester
male escorts and I think he had no right to stop me from
doing this because he also became the subject of pleasure for another
woman outside his married life.